Shiilia Marie: Writer . Speaker . Survivor . Healer . Trauma Coach
About Us
The Heart Behind the Healing
A journey of transformation, vulnerability, and the courage to turn pain into purpose—one story at a time.
Meet Shiilia
I never set out to become a writer. My journey began in the quiet spaces between heartbreak and healing, where I discovered that our deepest wounds often hold our greatest wisdom.
For years, I carried stories I was afraid to tell—stories of loss, resilience, and the messy, beautiful process of becoming whole again. Writing became my sanctuary, and eventually, my calling.
Today, I write to remind others that they're not alone in their struggles, and that healing is not a destination—it's a continuous journey of self-discovery and grace.
Shiilia's Personal Journey
My story didn't begin with words on a page—it began with silence. The kind of silence that wraps around you when you've forgotten how to speak your truth, when the weight of unspoken emotions becomes too heavy to carry alone.
"I learned that healing isn't about erasing the scars—it's about understanding the stories they tell and finding the courage to write new chapters."
Growing up, I carried wounds I didn't have names for. Emotional pain that felt invisible to the world but consumed every corner of my inner landscape. Like so many others, I wore masks—the strong one, the capable one, the one who had it all together. Beneath those masks, I was quietly drowning.
The turning point came not in a moment of triumph, but in surrender. When I finally allowed myself to break open, to feel everything I'd pushed down, something unexpected happened: I began to heal. And in that healing, I discovered my voice.
Writing became my medicine. Each word I placed on paper was an act of reclamation—taking back the parts of myself I'd lost to trauma, shame, and silence. I wrote for the person I was, the person I was becoming, and for every person who felt like their pain was too much or too complicated to share.
Today, I write from a place of deep empathy and hard-won wisdom. My journey through darkness taught me that vulnerability is not weakness—it's the bravest thing we can offer ourselves and each other. Every book I write, every story I share, is an invitation for others to begin their own journey toward wholeness.
Mission & Purpose
At the heart of everything I do is a simple belief: our stories have the power to heal us, and in sharing them, we heal each other.
Healing Advocacy
Beyond writing, I am deeply committed to advocacy work that centers emotional healing, mental wellness, and the radical act of being human in an often disconnected world.
Emotional Wellness
Creating safe spaces for emotional expression and validation. I advocate for the right to feel without judgment and the importance of emotional literacy in our daily lives.
Mental Health Awareness
Breaking down the stigma surrounding mental health struggles. Through open conversation and authentic storytelling, we normalize the human experience of mental and emotional challenges.
Empowerment Through Storytelling
Stories are medicine. When we share our truths, we give others permission to share theirs. I believe in the transformative power of narrative to shift shame into solidarity.
The Story Behind the Books
Each book is a chapter in my own evolution—a record of where I've been, what I've learned, and the wisdom I've gathered along the way.
2019
The Beginning
Whispers of the Wounded
Whispers of the Wounded
My first book was born from necessity—a collection of raw, unfiltered reflections on surviving trauma. It was my way of saying: 'You are not alone in your darkness.' This book represents my first steps toward reclaiming my voice.
Written during my own healing journey, when I was learning to speak truths I'd kept silent for years.
2021
Embracing Vulnerability
The Soft Revolution
The Soft Revolution
This book explores the radical power of gentleness in a world that often demands hardness. It's a manifesto for sensitive souls, celebrating emotional depth as a superpower rather than a weakness.
Inspired by the countless people who told me they felt 'too much'—this is for everyone who's been told to toughen up when what they really needed was permission to soften.
2023
Integration & Wholeness
Tender Truths
Tender Truths
My most recent work weaves together personal narrative, guided reflection, and healing practices. It's an intimate companion for anyone navigating the messy middle of transformation—when you're no longer who you were, but not yet who you're becoming.
Written from a place of deeper healing and integration, honoring both how far I've come and how much growth still unfolds.
With each book, my voice has evolved—becoming more clear, more tender, more sure of its purpose. Writing is how I make sense of this beautiful, difficult human experience, and how I offer that understanding back to the world.
The Brand Behind the Books
When people ask me about my "brand," I always pause. Because this isn't about marketing or carefully crafted images—it's about connection. My work exists at the intersection of authenticity, vulnerability, and hope.
Authenticity
I write from lived experience, not theory. Every word comes from the messy, beautiful reality of being human—no pretense, no perfection.
Connection
We heal in relationship—with ourselves, with each other, with the stories that remind us we're not alone. My work is an invitation to that connection.
Trust
I honor the sacred trust readers place in me when they open my books. Your stories, your pain, your hope—I hold it all with reverence.
Hope
Even in the depths of pain, I believe in our capacity for transformation. My books are love letters to resilience and the human spirit.
Everything I create is designed to feel like a warm embrace—safe, soft, and deeply human. From the words I choose to the communities I build, the goal is always the same: to create spaces where people can exhale, be seen, and remember their inherent worth.
The Emotional Promise
When you engage with my work, you're not just reading words—you're entering a space where your emotions are valid, your struggles are understood, and your healing is not only possible but celebrated. You belong here, exactly as you are.
This is more than an author brand—it's a commitment. A promise that I will continue to show up with honesty, tenderness, and an unwavering belief in our collective ability to heal, grow, and transform our pain into purpose.